Start by asking a child what they already know. This will help you know where they are and where you can begin the conversation. You might learn they have been told or imagined things that are not true, and those things may be much scarier than reality.
Be honest, simple, and clear with your words. Use direct language like “died” or “sick” or “divorce” instead of language that may be confusing and create more uncertainty or fear.
Go slowly as you begin hard conversations. Give children just what they need to understand, and give them time to consider, wonder, and ask questions before you give more information.
Make sure the child knows this hard thing is not their fault, and not their responsibility to fix.
Talking with Children About Difficult Things in the News Spanish Translation
Talking to Children about Difficult Things in the News
During times of tragedy and difficulty in the news, it can be difficult to know whether and how to talk to children about what is happening in their world. In this resource we offer ideas and support for guiding children through news about difficult current events.
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